January 2012
4 posts
Relational Anarchy →
blkdykegoddess:
Genius. I didn’t know there was a term for the way I run intimate relationships. I’d just gotten used to using “solo polyamorist” (thanks Ignacio!) but this fits even better! Win!
waxpapereyes:
Relational anarchy, [syn. relationship anarchy, both shorted RA,] questions the idea that love is a special, limited feeling which is real only when kept between two people at any...
“Boys are told from a young age that whatever they do will be excused under the...”
– The (Nonexistent) Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Consequences of Enthusiastic Consent (via ellielamothe)
December 2011
1 post
One teachers approach to preventing gender...
togetherforjacksoncountykids:
“It’s Okay to be Neither,” By Melissa Bollow Tempel
Alie arrived at our 1st-grade classroom wearing a sweatshirt with a hood. I asked her to take off her hood, and she refused. I thought she was just being difficult and ignored it. After breakfast we got in line for art, and I noticed that she still had not removed her hood. When we arrived at the art room, I said:...
November 2011
1 post
Organon: To all those men who don't think the rape... →
oforganon:
I get it—you’re a decent guy. I can even believe it. You’ve never raped anybody. You would NEVER rape anybody. You’re upset that all these feminists are trying to accuse you of doing something, or connect you to doing something, that, as far as you’re concerned, you’ve never done and would never…
September 2011
3 posts
“Just for a change, what if we actually asked sex workers about their situations...”
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Lies, Damn Lies, and Sex Work
I love Charlie Glickman.
(via debaucheddiva)
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“You much more refined than other Black girls.”
– My coworker to me. 21 years old, in Florida. Made me angry, speechless. (via microaggressions)
I’ve had many variations of this said to me throughout my life and it makes me mad as hell. I generally try to press them to articulate exactly what they mean by not like most black girls or not like...
6 tags
July 2011
1 post
“Rape culture is 1 in 6 women being sexually assaulted in their lifetimes. Rape...”
– Shakesville: Rape Culture 101 (via loveyourchaos)
June 2011
5 posts
mr zeitgeist: The Truth About Kinky Women →
mrzeitgeist:
This was written in response to a FetLife post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties.
You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful.
Let me ask you something:
Do you have a…
Asexuality etc.
fuckyeahasexualporn:
Asexuality = Not experiencing sexual attraction Demisexuality: Not experiencing primary sexual attraction, only when a strong emotional bond is formed Grey-A: Identifying in the grey area of sexuality, between asexuality and sexuality Asexuality ≠ Celibacy Love ≠ Sex Marriage ≠ Sex Sexual attraction ≠ Sexual behaviour Sexual orientation ≠ Romantic orientation Asexuality ≠...
February 2011
4 posts
sexgenderbody: Anal Sex Should Be A Feminist Issue... →
Me: Seriously people. My ass = my decision.
sexgenderbody:
(via Aag blog)
Emphasis mine:
Anal sex is painful, unsanitary, unsatisfying for women and creates unique risks for serious physical diseases (if you doubt me, go read the Wikipedia entry on the subject) because the anus is not designed for sexual intercourse, increasing the risk of…
Home from Winter Fire!
I’ll post updates soon… well, as soon as I get caught up on sleep. There were ups, and there were downs. What there was not was sleep.
1 tag
If you could wake up as anyone tomorrow, who would...
Me. Just a better, more centered me.
Ask me anything
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formspring.me
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December 2010
1 post
I'm on Facebook
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November 2010
2 posts
Updates a plenty
I rarely cross-post to this extent, but I wanted to make sure I didn’t miss anyone who might be following me. And also, I wanted to update all my neglected social media. I’ve been thinking for some time about becoming a pro-domme. I have a specific set of services I think I can provide. I have decided to pursue fee-based online and phone sessions, with an eye toward providing...
http://sexgenderbody.tumblr.com/post/1534891161/a-f... →
sexgenderbody:
a feminist is a woman who does not allow anyone to think in her place
October 2010
5 posts
http://sexgenderbody.tumblr.com/post/1357150215 →
My Mashup →
My lifestream, via profilactic.com
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My Stockroom.com Wish List →
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My EdenFantasys Wish List →
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My Amazon.com Universal Wish List →
Lots of stuff I want from lots of different places.